5 March 2026

Swipe right and match, what's next?

So you both swiped right and you've an adrenalin and rush and all excited. How do you proceed…


Moving too fast, jumping to quick on the ladder, can lead to burnout and miscommunication, while moving too slow not using momentum might cause missed opportunities and even a perfect match.?…


  1. Be Authentic. Getting to know someone gradually helps establish a genuine connection based on trust, transparency and mutual understanding..
  2. Keep the pace. Proper pacing ensures both individuals are aligned in their intentions and feelings, reducing misunderstandings.
  3. Keep your inner room. Keep integrity and your ”inner room, your room of lust, wanderlust. Codependency happens when one or both partners lose their identity and sense of self due to caring for someone else.



Too many people ignore warning signs. Part of pacing yourself in dating involves being mindful of warning signs that might indicate unhealthy dynamics. Not matter how often you see each other, these can take time to reveal themselves. Buliding trust is part of the Pace and mandatory to manage to step up the ladder of relationship.